Welcome to The Antlered Path
Hello, I’m Mitlé
Writer, lawyer, feminist; seeking my path of contribution in turbulent times. Find me in stone circles & churchyards, on footpaths, paddling in rivers, sea swimming, lying under dark skies or talking to yew trees.
For as long as I can remember, I’ve written to make sense of things, to gather thoughts, ask questions, hold longings, and to try and find my place in a world that I struggle to understand.
The Antlered Path is the current iteration of my Substack as I continue to navigate my way through midlife and finding out what living meaningfully means to me in a collapsing world.
I’m foraging for insights and ideas from the women who came before me in my family, from the ancestral goddess and mythical women of Britain, and from the fragmented herstories of the difficult, outspoken, rebellious women who have fought for our rights.
And in a time when many of those rights are being eroded, I’m drawing on feminist theories and legal frameworks as a way to re(dis)cover the meaning-making practices that will resource us so that we can see what is needed and what is ours to do.
I hope that my writing offers a small ‘island of sanity’ (Margaret Wheatley) in these increasingly insane times.
Why The Antlered Path
Elen of the Ways is the antlered goddess of Britain; her stories are elusive but her presence endures in the tracks and sacred sites across the country. Said to guide reindeer along ancient paths, she invites us to follow without knowing, to move with expectancy and not expectation, and to learn to ask our own questions as we walk.
I first encountered her in Sharon Blackie’s If Women Rose Rooted and quickly became enthralled with her, and delighted that her name echoed that of my own great-grandmother, Ellen.
Ellen was a matriarch who endured great loss, and whose resilience carried her through migration, marriage, motherhood, grief, debt and entrepreneurship. She was strong, uncompromising and loved fiercely.
Their shared name felt like a thread pulling the mythic and the ancestral together, guides from two worlds, both calling me to walk with them.
This quiet obsession led me north to the Cairngorms, where I walked with the reindeer herd that has been roaming there since being reintroduced in 1952 (two years after Ellen took her daughters and grand-children to Australia).
Unlike other deer, it is the matriarch who leads them through seasonal migrations, and the only deer species in which the females grow antlers.
For me, their antlers are both symbolic of branching possibilities and the cycles of thresholds; sprouting soft called ‘velvet’, fed by blood and nerves, hardening into bone, then shed and grown anew.
The Antlered Path came from these stories and draws on their resilience and resourcefulness, on lineage and legacy, and on the personal and the archetypal. To walk this path is to follow the deer trods, seeking meaning in uncertain terrain, carrying grief and wonder, and choosing, again and again, to cultivate love and courage in the midst of collapse.
The Conversations I’d Like To Have
May this space can be one where we wrestle with the big questions of our time:
What does it mean to live meaningfully in a collapsing world?
How do we retain our humanity, cultivate courage and kindness, and embody love?
How do we be brave and use our voices, not to argue or convince, but to speak truthfully, to call out what is wrong and stand for what is right, so that our lives align with our values?
How do we honour our ancestors and remember that all humans have lived through hard times, that we are not exceptional, only alive in our time?
And how do we still cultivate awe, joy, beauty, and magic; not as escape, but as essential to being human, as sources of resilience, purpose, and meaning?
I hope The Antlered Path can feel like one of Margaret Wheatley’s “islands of sanity” - a place where you feel safe to share, where your voice matters, and where together we can keep asking, keep listening, and keep creating lives of courage and contribution.
Who Am I?
I’m Mitlé Clare (she/her); writer, lawyer, and feminist. I currently serve as Director of Operations and In-House Solicitor for a global nonprofit advancing midlife women’s health.
My own antlered path has been many-branched: from law to nutrition, café to coaching, circle facilitation to the charity sector. I am also a mother, partner, daughter, sister, and aunt; each role shaping me in its own way.
My lineage is woven through the British Isles, tracing my roots through the lands of England, Wales, Scotland, and Ireland, and also from a restless tide that flows between Britain and Australia. A rhythm of migration and return has marked my motherline for generations, my great-great-grandmother, my great-grandmother, my grandmother, my mother, myself; and now I have returned with my son. Each place claims a part of me, yet I never fully belong to either when I arrive.
I write now from the threshold of midlife, committed to feminism, community, and flourishing (both personal and collective) and believe it is our responsibility to use our experience, knowledge and creativity and find our path of contribution.
Walk With Me
May The Antlered Path feel like walking the deer trods together; companionship through midlife’s thresholds and these turbulent times. A place to reflect and replenish, to bring our whole selves: our questions and doubts, fears and anxieties alongside our joys and celebrations - without fixing or proving. In this way, may we practice embodying courage and love.
If that speaks to you, subscribe below and join me.
Together, let’s walk the antlered path.
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I supported your work because I so appreciate your teaching of circle holding and the way you lead through your own wonderful holding of nourishing spaces. I’ve benefitted so much from being in circle with you and the wonderful humans you draw together. I learn, I see, I know, I grow. So glad to continue this journey over here on Substack and to witness you bring your much-needed book to life.
Lisa Mabberley
Mother, Nurture & Wild
